Life is full of choices, and one of the most critical ones we face daily is whether to be a victim and make excuses or to take control and thrive. The world is not fair, and there is no “easy button” to success. However, how we respond to challenges and setbacks can make all the difference. Here are three actionable takeaways to help you shift your focus and energy towards building a better future.
Focus on What You Can Control
In the early stages of my career, I wasted precious time analyzing why people wronged me, their motives, and whether I was being discriminated against as a woman, a blonde, or a young person when most people were 20 years my senior. The truth is, none of that really mattered. There is no perfect scenario, and you can only control your actions and work ethic. Instead of worrying about rude comments, rejections, or potential discrimination, channel that energy into being your best self.
When I first started posting on LinkedIn and building my personal brand, I was scared to share any real stories that showed me in a less-than-perfect light. I wanted to highlight my strengths and showcase what I knew. I was also very afraid of what people would think of me, judging me for the pictures I posted and the content I shared. Some of the comments I received were hateful and negative. Then I realized that no one who is posting and trying to build their brand was putting negative hate on my page. The people who were doing that were doing very little themselves. This was my lesson that haters mean you’ve made it, and those who have time to tear others down are likely not doing much themselves.
Key Takeaway: Focus on What You Can Control
How many of you have spent time thinking about those who have done you wrong when you could have just put your head down and continued to prove them wrong?
Leverage Perception and Focus to Your Advantage
Life is all about perception and focus. The same reasons someone might discriminate or reject you can also become your greatest strengths. Your focus will determine your reality, and wasting energy on unsolvable problems is a distraction from your true potential.
As a woman who loves to wear hats and embraces the color pink, I realized that these qualities might make some people not want to work with me. However, those same qualities are also why others are drawn to collaborate with me. It’s a reminder that you will never please everyone. Focus on the battles you can win and understand that even if you only win over 1% of people, your business can still be wildly successful.
Key Takeaway: Leverage Perception and Focus to Your Advantage
“Your focus determines your reality.” – George Lucas
According to a study by Stanford University, people who adopt a growth mindset and focus on their own actions are 34% more likely to achieve their goals compared to those who fixate on external factors.
Find the Right People and Opportunities
If you encounter people or places that treat you wrong or don’t provide the best opportunities, don’t waste time trying to change them. Instead, find the right people and opportunities that align with your growth and values. Not every situation is all good or all bad, and while you cannot control others, you can choose who and what you invest your time in.
When I realized that my workplace wasn’t conducive to my growth, I made the tough decision to leave and find a company that valued my contributions. That move not only boosted my career but also my self-confidence.
Key Takeaway: Find the Right People and Opportunities
Research shows that 85% of jobs are filled through networking. Having a powerful network can open doors to opportunities that might otherwise remain closed.
Conclusion
Take a moment today to reflect on where your energy is going. Are you empowering yourself, or are you letting distractions hold you back? Make the conscious choice to focus on what truly matters, and watch as your life begins to change in remarkable ways.
Choosing to focus on what truly matters can transform your life and career. By controlling your actions, leveraging perception to your advantage, and finding the right people and opportunities, you can stop wasting time on distractions and start building a future filled with incredible possibilities. Remember, what you focus on expands. Make sure your energy is directed towards things that make you, your life, and the world better. If you do, the results will be extraordinary.
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